Dating coach Lauren Everly here covering the topic of how soon do you text her. So I would say definitely text her or call her within 2 days. That is hands down. This is no longer the era of the three-day wait rule. That just makes you look like you're playing games. 3 days is definitely too long so make some time in your schedule. I would text her within a couple hours of when you finished hanging out. Even as soon as an hour after you hang out. The exception to this is that I would wait until it's before 10 p.m. because it's just more gentlemanly. After 10 p.m. is a little bit more impolite. If it's going to be after 10, maybe let her do it for the first time. You just come off as a better caliber of guy, so she's going to see you as higher-quality in her mind.
Also call her within 24 hours: this really sets you apart. There's going to be a lot of guys texting her. Women get a lot more attention than guys on average. So by calling her, are you set yourself apart and you can convey that warm human tone and keep the chemistry going. It can be really hard to keep the chemistry going via text. And if you want to know what to say via text before you call her, go to http://LaurenEverly.com and I have a free guide there with three simple texts that enhance her attraction for you. So go there and get that guide before you even text her. If you met her at night you could text her or call her the next morning. Calling is also good because honestly text messages can fail to go through, even in this day and age. There's three reasons why to contact within 24 hours. Number one is it establishes that you're not playing games and that's important, because it sets you as a higher quality of man, and number two, subconsciously, it says to her that you're not going to be too busy to be fun. Show her you're not overloaded too much with work even if you are, and show her you can make a little time for romance and fun. The third reason is that it shows that you’re not a huge player. At least it would indicate more that you're not because if you have too many girls in your life that you just can't get around to calling her, it’s not going to be a good thing for her. She wants to know you're not a heartbreaker.
In addition to all the reasons listed above, I realized that the number one reason you shouldn't wait too long to text her is because you have got to strike while the iron is hot, before things fizzle out. Additionally, the hotter the girl, the faster she will get stolen away from you if you wait too long. Join my mailing list so you can have access to an insider perspective, and get that girl before she gets snatched up.
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